scarred for life, much?

So, the other day my moms friend was driving my friend & I home from someone elses house. After we'd dropped her off we started talking and an important detail here is...my mom's friend is a guy & he's gay. Now, anyways, we were talking and somehow we got into talking about boys & the topic of sex came up...? Yeah, I know. It was a little strange but I was like, you know, whatever.

Anyways, we start talking and he says he thinks abstinence is ridiculous. I disagree a little bit just because I think it's true you know? You should save your body for the person you want to be with for the rest of your life...but weirdly enough, this guy made some good points. He said that his friend was abstinent, and when she finally got married & was on her honey moon, her husbands peen was the "size of a pinky." As if I wasn't laughing enough at this point, this 40 yr. old gay man told me that "I shouldn't give every guy I go out with sex, but if it's in the moment I shouldn't fight it." I was dieing, of being uncomfortable & because it sounded HIGH-LARIOUS coming from him.

But here's the worst part -- when he told me I shouldn't go off having sex with every guy (which I already knew on my own) he said that I should give him something to work with, not let him touch me, but I should touch him once in a while to keep him interested. Does anyone understand how awkward & vial that is? I mean seriously, picture yourself sitting in a car...just driving home talking to your mom's gay friend & all of a sudden you get into an awkward conversation and he tells you that it's okay to jack off your boyfriend. I DIED OF LAUGHTER, PEOPLE.

So I learned a couple of thing in the car that day. (1) When you're with someone you've got to have two types of love. 1-love in your heart & 2-love in bed. (2) Gay men are CRAZY ! But seriously, talk about scared for life...I talked to a gay guy about my future sex life...that's pretty darn awkward !

What would you do?

Yours Truly,

Rai