So, I've been thinking a lot about my friends lately & what's going to happen next year when I move onto high school. I was considering all the friends I've lost & gained and then a question popped into my mind. Do people really change? Or do people just start to like different things? Or is that considered changing? All these intertwined questions with no answers are really starting to drive me nuts !
I mean...does it make sense that just because someone starts to like different music, or wear different clothes, and say different things it's fair to say they've "changed" ? Honestly, I have no idea anymore. I mean...people will say I've changed and I'll ask how? I get no answer. I can't explain how others change myself, and I like being the one with the answers. But seriously though, in the future when there's no such thing as a "Queen B" will the girl who was "Queen B" still have the "Queen B" personality? Or will she change? Will the jerky jock still be a jerk when he's grown out of highschool? Will the nerd still talk about how interesting mathematics is when his job has nothing to do with math? It's all just so confusing my brain is about to spontaneously combust !
So...what does it take to actually change? You don't like who you are, or you're not the person you wanted to be...so you try to change. Does that mean you go off and hang out with new people? Or you go out and do stuff you'd normally hate just because the person you want to be would do that? I really don't understand change anymore & it's driving me fricken insane! Your interests will change, sure, but a tiger can't change it's stripes over night. So maybe the answer is we don't change, maybe we just are who we are at the end of the day & that's how it's supposed to be even if it's not how we pictured it in our own minds.
What do you think?
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lol yess wat the faukkk is change!
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ReplyDeleteLike I was sorta' speechless,
I've been knowing that your work is
amazing & This one also proves it..
To tell you the Truth I too would
absolutely love to find out what change
really means. I too get the comment "Sarah, you've changed" yet no sufficient answer when I ask "How??!" .. Questions like these are
confusing, And maybe even meant never to be answered. Once you get the Answer .. Inform me
[: te amo Issa<3
Wow, I'm agreeing with Sarahh.
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Change is a word that I don't think can be defined in any real way. There are so many things in life that can affect you in so many different ways, people are bound to be confused about it.
I think the comment "You've changed" is not a fair accusation, because in reality if your relationship with a person changes it's a two way street. There's gotta be something on your side of the road different.
People need to look within themselves for their definition of change before accusing others of it.
Damn now you're making me think (;
Much lovee. <3
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ReplyDeletelike 'change' is such an awkward and like misused word! its so oftenly used as a bad thing..ya know? like ew, omg she's changed soo much since last year, or something close to that. idk!! if you ever get a good answer to this stuff, lemmee know! x)
loveee yaa rai.<3