Alright so, besides having my own issues...I feel like I'm dealing with a lot of things I...shouldn't be dealing with. I'm just going to be straight-up & throw it out there. PDA should be a beautiful thing, you know? Two people, "in love", wanna show it off -- it's cool. BUT, honestly, when I'm sitting around trying to talk to my friends but I can't because I feel like they're isolated into their own little bubble, it truly gets on my nerves. So, here's my solution.
Coy: affectedly modest or shy especially in a playful or provocative way.
The question: whatever happened to coy? I mean...last time I checked coy wasn't bad. Don't dare mistake me for a prude because I love guys & I love flirting and all that good stuff...but does it need to be in front of everyone I know, every moment of the day? NO. Absolutely not. PDA is becoming gross, and after a while, no offence to those public-affectioners, but it gets unbearably annoying. But back to the coy thing, I personally think the relationship would be a lot hotter if it was discreet...mysterious. I mean, why not save all the touching & kissing for when you two are alone?! Like, the single friends DON'T want to see the couples making out and the other couples don't care because they're too busy being couples! God! Whatever happened to the good old days where you could hang out with your friends, as friends.
Oh and let me not get started on the lame excuses I get when I try to confront my lovey-dovey friends like, "We don't ever see each other" or "So I can't even be near my boyfriend? Or else I'm an annoying couple?" Honey, when your friends are telling you you're isolating yourself & your boyfriend from the group, you better know they're not lieing, and if the only people that are going up against that are the other couples you're in a state I'd like to call DENIAL.
I'm probably coming off as one of those people who can't stand seeing anything that resembles love, but that's far from correct. It's like it's out of my character to tell anyone to "get a room" but sometimes it's just a teensy-weensy too far. I love my friends, but all the PDA crap is really selfish & inconsiderate of the people around you. Forgive me for not understanding the beauty of 24/7 PDA, but until I fall so deeply in love, into this state that I forget everyone else around me and only one person is the center of my world, I will not understand.
xoxo,
Rai.
Rai.
P.S - sucking face in front of others is MASSIVELY unattractive.
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I don't think theres anything wrong with kissing in the halls, but watching people like tounge wrestle in the halls gets pretty annoying
ReplyDeleteBtw, you are really good at blogging. =]
i know i was a PDAerrr. but now i realized it is annoyinngg, x]
ReplyDeleteI know what your talking about and yeah the forgetting your other friends part gets annoying too
ReplyDeleteahah! yesss i agreee ! (:
ReplyDeleteA - Fucking Greed .. Yes I may hook up here and there with a dude, but I mean talk about DISRESPECTFUL .. like (1) makes your single friends feel like shit because there the other wheel rolling solo. (2) Your making your significant other feel awkward because everyone Now knows how his face looks like when he's touch,kissing,rubbing,squeezing etc .. you . ESPECIALLY if he's a bad kisser, I mean c'mon don't waste your time embaressing him in front of your friends. (3) I don't want to sound Like a Hippocrate like I would kiss my man here and there sometimes but I mean no one wants to see that .. Issa, I totally agree with you .. what really did happen to the good old days when you could be cute with your boyfriend while [INCLUDING your friends into the CONVERSATION] but not PDA' like a friggen Physco .. & To the Lilito Blog .. that is great. tell you the truth I would laugh then text the biffles saying AWKWARDD AKKWARDD AWKWARD MOMENT :]
ReplyDeletehaha i agree to. its kinda annoying when all u wanna do it talk to your friend and they are to busisey ignoring u and thinking about ther bf!
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